Category: Commentary

Sh***le! Marketing

Steven Grooby and I have had a LONG running dialog on the topic of trans porn marketing of which I’m not proud. It kind of got out of control and I wrote a LOT of critical blog and message board posts. I was pushing him to do more to get rid of the…

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The Transsexual National Anthem

“You know you like it, but it drives you insane… you know you like it, but you’re scared of the shame. What you want? What you want?”   Just a reminder, trans-attracted people: if you’re ashamed of it, then that’s on you. And we can smell it on you when you are, so…

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Give A Fuck About A Lifestyle

AKA: Don’t call it a lifestyle; I’ve been here for years.   I decided to write this because I find it silly that cis people consider what transsexuals do to align their minds and bodies a ‘lifestyle,’ not a life CHOICE. The difference between them is that, at least for me, it’s not a…

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On RuPaul and Separating the T from the GLBT

According to a gay man who wears women’s clothing as a career, not a trans person, RuPaul: ‘the only difference between a drag queen and a transsexual is $25,000 and a good surgeon.’ That’s intentionally confusing to his viewers, both straight and gay (and primarily cisgendered) who watch his show because his mainstream…

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Jared Leto in Dallas Buyers Club – Not Good for Trans People

I’m so loving all of the gender queer and cis people deciding what is and is not valid PR for trans women, but don’t know the difference between transsexual people and other transgender individuals. Transsexual people actually DO conform to the gender binary. We’ve just switched poles. Conflating that with other forms of…

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